Richmond Options and Tributes
WHAT I OFFER
Domination
Femdomme
Fetish
Kink
BDSM
Discomfort
Mindfuck
Pain
Challenge
Therapy
Catharsis
Fun & Games
I see you as you are, not as you may wish to be.
Scheduling Notes
You are responsible for securing the space for us. This means booking a hotel or I can come to your residence.
My time is flexible; the more notice, the more flexible. I like Sundays to myself, and to not begin anything later than 8pm.
Be aware I expect the information below to change as my experience changes. This page will always be current and accurate.
MY INTERESTS AND LIMITS
FOOT/HAND WORSHIP
Foot/stocking/pantyhose/shoe worship. Shoe dangling. Smelly socks. Smelly boots. Sole-cleaning. Hand/glove worship. Anything along these lines.
TO NOTE:
40 MINUTES
$300
INTERVIEW
This is not a substitute for screening. This is a compatibility interview, or a pre-negotiation, especially for complex scenes. Required for couples. Recommended for Nervous Nellies.
OPTIONS
DOMINATION
If my drive is further than an hour roundtrip, there is a travel surcharge depending on the distance.
Discreet public play may be allowed during the meal. In-session interview and aftercare/debrief always included. Free dick ratings, if you wish (in-person sessions only).
OPTIONS
SHOPPING PACKAGES
Shopping trips are clock-free. Shopping will include a number of stops: personal clothing and accessories, household goods, fun stuff (additions to my toy bag/dungeon), personal toys only for you (if you wish), lingerie, wine or ABC. Stops to donate to organizations can be part of a shopping day, as can art galleries.
Online shopping might include the purchase of gift cards for later use (in the same categories as above).
Custom itineraries can be created. You are expected to carry all bags and packages, of course.
LOCAL
ONLINE
SHOPPING TRAVEL
Richmond is a fine town, but I know better shopping can be had in other cities. More options, more fun.
Travel needs to be arranged. The tribute for my time is differs depending on the amount of travel required. The minimum spend remains the same, though it would be a shame to be so limited in these great cities.
SUGGESTED
YOUR SUGGESTIONS?
rules
If your phone rings or your watch vibrates while we’re together, it may end up in the toilet. Take off your watch and silence your phone. Put them in a lockbox if you must.
If you are so terribly important that you can’t miss a single call, then schedule a very short session when you won’t be missed, or hire a personal assistant so they can take your calls.
I will always be fully-dressed and you will not. Be prepared for disrobing.
Payment is expected at the beginning. I may remind you, or you can make the offering of your own accord. Cash is always the perfect choice, but there are more options, including using your credit card securely through a third-party payment processor. Once I’ve confirmed that you’ve passed screening, please inquire if you need alternative payment options.
I can be light-hearted and humorous, despite the impression I make. If something is funny or you make a truly witty remark, we’ll laugh. Don’t be a brat or vulgar, be witty. If you can’t be witty, be quiet.
I can get very silly, sometimes. Though if I tell you to do a Silly Walk down the hall and you have no idea what I mean, I may be disappointed and then you’re going to be forced to watch Youtube videos of Monty Python.
Thank you for asking. My beverage preferences are: water (sparkling or still, Voss preferred), champagne (Cristal, Perrier-Jouet, Veuve Clicquot), or a well-made Cosmopolitan. I enjoy discovering new wines and champagnes but am not a hard-liquor connoisseur, though I flirted with bourbon for a while. Angel’s Envy is my preferred bourbon.
I am not looking for personal slaves at this time. Slavehood is an honor conferred by our experiences together. It’s not tossed to anyone who asks who offers nothing I want.
Cancellations
Currently I do not require a deposit for scheduling. I’m sure someone will change that for everyone. Don’t be that person.
If you cancel with more than 72hrs notice, you are allowed to reschedule at the time of cancellation. Once.
If you cancel with less than 72hrs notice, you are required to pay 50% of your reserved time, and are allowed to reschedule at the time of cancellation. Once.
If you cancel with less than 48hrs notice, you are required to pay 100% of your reserved time, and are allowed to reschedule at the time of cancellation. Once.
A lack of response to my confirmation the day of counts as a last-minute cancellation. I expect 100% payment of your reserved time, otherwise you will be blacklisted and we will not ever meet.
Should you cancel without rescheduling, a deposit will be required for future bookings. Attempting to cancel and reschedule more than once means deposits will be required for you. Deposits for your inability to keep your bookings are non-refundable.
Essentially, I expect you to be a man of your word. That’s a low bar, very easy to clear. It’s certainly something I expect from someone seeking order and discipline in their lives.
Surrender
…your own will, some of your desires, your freedom, making decisions, your clothing
Submission
kneeling at my feet, answering me honestly, paying homage to that which you will never be, understanding I am your superior in every way, reveling in delight when you please me, aching when you don’t
Submersion
unable to stay away, spending more time with me guiding your every thought, guiding how your body acts and reacts, listening to my voice, learning how to please me without a single word, wallowing in the thrill of chastisement, learning to serve me, finding freedom in bondage
Website
The Lady Ava
Psychological dominatrix in Richmond, Charlottesville, Williamsburg, DC, Raleigh, Durham, Virginia Beach. Offering BDSM, kink, fetish, femdomme sessions of various types for The Lady’s personal amusement. Currently no online services are offered, other than a non-video phone interview for compatibility.